Ladies, do you feel me?

How many times have you found yourselves being referred to as "baby mama"? I have heard it too many times to even sit here and start counting. I don't completely approve of the title, since it has been a long time since my kids were considered "babies",but ladies it is what it is.

There are a few reasons why your children's father chooses to use the term "baby mama" when talking about you or distinguishing what place you have in his life. Those reasons are as follows.

1. You were NEVER his wife.
2. You were NEVER his girlfriend.
3. You have him on CHILD SUPPORT.
4. Last time he saw your kids, they were babies.
5. He is ghetto.
6. He is a jerk (that song was written about us you know that right?)

Now that we have that out of the way I will get into the reasons for this blog. There are not many places for us to dish and discuss the issues that we have to deal with having absent fathers for our children. We come in many shades and types, and ladies we are the MAJORITY. Why don't we have a meeting place yet?

It's because all of us have that one close girlfriend that we can call to run down that, (yeah I'm going to say it) baby daddy. Is it actual running down though, if it is true? Well we need to cut that one friend a break and share our stories, and have someone to ask questions about what we should do or how to handle some of our "baby mama drama" in our lives. Once we get the drama down to a minimum, I promise you things will get better and run alot smoother.

Sooo, this blog goes out to you guys, all those ladies who are soliders for their children and fight for what they believe in. I am right with you in this war and believe me I have been through the fire.